Touch my Body

Hello there! A simple greeting from me, the newbie on the BLOG. Aren't you feel a little surprise with the title above? LOL  Shit, i just don't know what to type. I'll try my best though. So, here we go.

There are lots of ways to communicate in our daily life. We can communicate either through verbal or non verbal way. As long as we have all those senses needed in order to communicate. So here, i just want to share a little things on communication by touch. In other words, tactile @ haptics. ( nang galak2 ilmu di ajar madam sue pagi tadik..mun classmates aku baca tok, kompom tetak. :p )

There is one phrase which actually drives me to write about this topic.
       " In the early stages of a relationship, you touch little; in intermediate stages (involvement and intimacy), you touch a great deal; and stable or deteriorating stages, you again touch little (Guerro & Anderson,1991)."
This phrase does tickle me and stays in my mind for the whole morning. Yeah, it is a fact actually and i do agree with the statement above. In the early stage of relationship, couples are anxious to touch his/her partner. Eg: holding hands, kiss on a cheek or the forehead (sounds cute) or just a simple hug. But when it comes to the intermediate stage where the relationship continues till a few months/ years long, then more 'touch' will happen. ( you'll understand what i meant). I just suddenly feel curious on those few last words. " ..and stable or deteriorating stages, you again touch little".. I just can't find out why the writers write so. ( apa maksud nya oh,,) for the whole morning, i was just thinking about this. Let me get you and myself clear. Adakah maksud penulis, bila kita sudah berada di peringkat yang sudah stabil ( berkahwin)  komunikasi dari segi bersentuhan itu berkurangan??? Ok, THAT'S WEIRD! 

Masa mula berkawan, bertepuk tampar. Dah bergerek, pegang sana sini, then tiba2 bila udah sah (kahwin), kurang agik, macam 1st-1st berkawan dolok. Lucu nak?

Do you thinking what I'm thinking? Do you get what i mean? Do you understand why that phrase stayed in my mind for quite some time? Is this what will happen when we get married? If this so, takut la nak kahwin. LOL

Dear friends, this is just a bit of fun things to share. It is just a reminder for myself and everyone else out there. Don't get mad or so forth, aite? What i've said maybe will happen or not gonna happen at all. Just wait till the time comes. And when it comes, share to me what have you been through. Is there less or more touching communication. :) Peace out peeps. Au revoir!